The Art of Direct Experience

As I've allowed my curiosity to lead me in directions and to ideas I never knew existed, I've been trying to gather my thoughts on how I can put the information I've gathered in a simple and somewhat rational sequence that some may benefit from and can put to use in their daily experience. Nothing is more important than YOUR own experience, your life, what is taking place in the here and now. Many of us trip over memories from our past or invite the uncertain future, and it is safe to say many of us have gone a very long time without an immediate experience of any kind.

Before I begin on the first of many installments I plan to post, I'd like us to attempt to unlearn and train ourselves in a new way regarding the method in which we gather information and form concepts. We are either being conditioned to think a certain way based on someone else's vastly different experience OR we are fully conscious and creating our own way of thinking and deciphering the information we are receiving without anyone telling us "This Is How It Is." From a very young age, as we become more and more conscious (aware) we are playing many roles. The most consistent of these roles is "The Child of Parents X and Y." We come into consciousness with an enthusiasm for life that is natural to our being and truly in rhythm with who we are. As the years go on we begin to take information on authority not just from our parents but also teachers, friends, industry professionals and the media. Like any concept or method, unless you are aware of it you can't see it, like a fish in water has no concept of being in water, it just is the way it is. One quickly begins to realize that they are turning into their parents, the conditioning/parenting/learning that takes place is never done voluntary, we are punished if we don't "see" it our parents way. The parent thinks they know best so they say this is the way it is, since they don't know better and can only teach what they were taught, what they are really saying is this is my belief system that I think is true and if you act in accordance with what I believe I will grade you as "Good" or "Bad." We quickly begin acting, analyzing, evaluating not with what we directly experience but through the lens of our belief system that is conditioned into us.

It is difficult to reduce such a vast topic of immediate experience into a short introductory post but my future posts will be under specific categories. For them to be truly absorbed and understood they all have their rightful place in the greater whole. If I can leave you with a "tip" going forward to bring into your daily experience that has greatly helped myself, it'd be to take on the childlike enthusiasm/curiosity we were born with and question everything, ask yourself the question "How do I feel?" As you begin to question and you become more aware, what you begin to seek starts seeking you in an act of dual happening, and you become fully empowered at each moment.

Love,

Wes Pinkston

Encinitas Life Coach


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Managing Your Energy

We exist within a digital realm. Everything we do, the pace and the rhythms become more and more expedited each week. Our weeks are relentless and full of rapid fire events, one after the other in a linear sequence. Our culture celebrates breadth rather than depth, whether it's with co-workers, friends, family or ourselves. Quick reaction and pace seems to be valued more than careful reflection. Very few us of take the time to pause and consider who we want to be or where we want to go, we believe that if we just keep working hard it will pay off. The reality is hard work without direction and purpose will not pay off, no matter how busy you are or how your mind tries to justify productivity.

At all moments of the day we are expanding and contracting our energy, with little time given to restoration. Physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually we are under nourished but we believe that we can perform at a high level day in and day out based on the expectations of others and ourselves. If it hasn't happened yet, this will lead to a burn out, the wheels will eventually fall off. The goal is to be conscious enough to make a change before this burn out.

We are all trying to do the best we can, given the demands of today's culture. A problem manifests itself when the external demands of our home and work life far exceed our capabilities and energy levels, especially with the lack of proper daily maintenance of our body and mind. We rarely get a great night sleep, use coffee to get us up and alcohol at night to unwind. All of the actions and decisions we make daily have consequences, some more visible and felt than others, but existing and building nonetheless. We are not in a position to shape the environment to us, our goals, our dreams our values, rather we shape and mold ourselves to fit the environment with a mind that is experiencing atrophy. 

My coaching touches with the 4 main aspects of our existence, the physical, the emotional, the mental and the spiritual. If you have a free 45-minutes I invite you to jump on a call with me so we can take an inventory of your current situation and see if we can make a great team to begin to manifest the life you know you ought to be experiencing. 

Love,

Wes Pinkston

Encinitas Life Coach


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The Art of Language

“The syntactical nature of reality, the real secret of magic, is that the world is made of words. And if you know the words that the world is made of, you can make of it whatever you wish.”

- Terence Mckenna

There is nothing more vital to one's life, one's experience, than the understanding of language. We see in words, hear in words, think in words, feel in words, EVERYTHING is language. Nothing can be achieved or manifested without words, without the ability to speak about our feelings/ideas/sensations/ intelligently. All day we swim in words, like a fish in water, many of us, like myself didn't truly realize the significance they had on my immediate experience with reality, until I was imprisoned by them. I imprisoned myself within words, but the beauty of the story is I've liberated myself with words. Until we become conscious of language and the machinery that it is, we can not use it as the transformational tool that it is, it is humanity's most prized achievement.

Like any tool, it solely depends on the user, the conscious being that "picks it up." Whether it is a pen or a paintbrush, some manifest masterpieces while others manifest more simple forms of expression. Before we use the tool that is language, it makes sense to be aware of it's power and potential, as well as consequences if used in a manner harmful to oneself or others. Any tool that has tremendous potentiality for actualizing ideas, must be used consciously.

From a very young age, we are thrown into a sea of words, swimming and treading words to stay afloat, language makes for an incredible tool, our greatest tool with nothing even close to it, but language makes for a terrible master. Don't be so TRUSTING of words, at all moments in the day, watching tv, talking to friends, listening to family members, reading articles, we are being conditioned. Until we cultivate a conscious bubble within ourselves we can rest in, that understands the machinery of language and how incredibly general it's assumptions are, we will always be told how it is, what to do, etc., the rhetoric of life. There is a world beyond words, and many of us paint over reality with a mosaic of words. Words, like any tool, can be over used, we need to know when to use words and when not too. Words remove the meaning and feelings from reality.

If I were to ask you to describe love... Listen to your words... See how poorly you are describing love. Reality is almost impossible to talk about, the feelings and emotions we feel at every given moment. You KNOW what love it, but when asked to describe it with words you find they just don't suffice. When you read and listen, when you are being conditioned by anyone, see PAST the words, and draw your own conclusions based on how you feel about the matter.

Stop tiling over reality with words, words most often than not ruin the moment, ruin the feeling, ruin the experience.

Love,

Wes Pinkston

Encinitas Life Coach


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Why Chasing Fame or Fortune Won’t Lead You to Happiness


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Avoid complexification with San Diego Life Coach Wes Pinkston

Wes Pinkston is an Entrepreneur and Transformational Business/Life Coach. At the age of 29, a profound inner transformation radically changed the course of his life. He is now devoted to understanding, integrating, and deepening that transformation, which has marked the beginning of an intense inward journey. Weaving together both Western and Eastern influences, he is able to guide his client’s through their journey in all phases of life.

What you’ll learn about in this episode:

*Wes’ background
*Why effective communication is so important not only with others but with yourself
*Having a clear vision of your ideal day & the role you play in it
*How adapting your awareness to your experience can change your life
*Why changing your viewpoint from competitive to collaborative can help you be successful
*Why you need to take accountability for both the good and the bad
*How making simple tweaks can drastically change things
*Why you need to be expressing, not suppressing
*Why you should just “be” when you are at home
*The importance of bringing back your childlike enthusiasm


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Encinitas Life Coach Wes Pinkston: Victoria Watson testimonial

Working with Wes Pinkston has been a life changing experience both personally and professionally. He has helped me to fully manifest the marketing and business ideas within my mind. His clear communication and listening has enabled me to transcend my self created limitations and helped me to approach sales with my highest potential. His ability to zoom in to specific aspects of my system and bring clarity while also maintaining a zoomed out macro level perspective has been priceless. From the discovery process to the practical execution of my ideas Wes has been with me every step of the process with a truly knowledgeable and empathetic presence.

Victoria Watson

REALTOR

Coldwell Banker Quality Properties

Los Angeles, California


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Encinitas Life Coach Wes Pinkston: Sonya Gomez testimonial

I first met Wes about 8 months into opening up my Life Coaching business. At that time, I was very new to social media marketing, or business development in general. After just one meeting with Wes I was able to utilize techniques he had taught me to build my social media reputation which led to several consultations very quickly. Not only is Wes a great Business Coach, he is an amazing Life Coach. I leave every meeting with Wes with a paradigm shift having a whole new perspective on life.  Wes has a way of understanding and relating to my ever-expanding consciousness and spiritual journeys which makes me feel validated, understood, and always inspired! With his passion for life and unique interests, Wes is definitely one of a kind =)

Sonya Gomez,

San Diego Life Coach


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Encinitas Life Coach Wes Pinkston: Candice Wiggins testimonial

“Growing up with Wes, it was apparent from a young age he was destined for greatness. He has always been a leader in every sense of the word, especially regarding his passion and dedication for actualizing the potential of those around him. His message focused around empowering people and sharing the path to greatness across the globe is truly inspiring.”

- Candice Wiggins

WNBA Champion

WNBA Sixth Woman of the Year (2008)


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Robert Grasso testimonial for Wes Pinkston

Working with Wes Pinkston was an incredible experience, he effortlessly distilled the vision I had for my coaching practice and made it a reality online. He was with me step-by-step with crystal clear communication and leadership. If you are looking to bring your business online seamlessly while maintaining the unique value you offer, look no further than Wes.

Robert Grasso

Upper School History Department

Assistant Baseball Coach and Leadership Coordinator

La Jolla Country Day School

9490 Genesee Avenue, La Jolla, CA 92037

www.ljcds.org


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Bryan Dusseau testimonial for Wes Pinkston

"Wes is very knowledgeable, and gives off an energy that is contagious. It makes me stay in the moment and really reflect on myself." 

-Bryan Dusseau

Host of the Purpessence Podcast.


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Encinitas Life Coach Wes Pinkston: Jen Beron testimonial

"Working with Wes has been such an incredible experience. His listening and linguistic skills provided a relaxed and transparent environment to aid me in my endeavors. It's clear to see he is comfortable himself which allows me to be my authentic self in return."

Jen Beron

Real Estate Agent at The Agency

Beverly Hills, California


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Encinitas Life Coach Wes Pinkston: Greg Jacobsen testimonial


"I met Wes Pinkston on Instagram about a month or so ago, I was looking to add some spiritually minded, consciousness based people to my network. I saw Wes's profile and saw he was a life coach and instantly just had to connect. After our 45-minute consultation I knew that he was definitely somebody that I wanted to work with. He put a lot of my anxieties to rest, a lot of fears that I had by working with a coach. He let me express myself and I felt very comfortable in doing that and then from that point he addressed and outlined the ways that he could assist me in my process. Since I would like to definitely be coaching people at some point along my path in my journey as well. The month I've been working with Wes so far has definitely helped me out with that process exponentially. For me I can get a little out there sometimes and what I really like about working with Wes is that he entertains that space for me and makes me feel very comfortable being myself and then at the same time he'll make sure that we get back on track and stay focused on the task at hand. That process is so valuable for me because without working with somebody like that I can get all over the place. He really helps me ground down, get practical and take a lot of the potential I have and start to make it actual. For that I am eternally grateful working with him so far, he's truly, truly, an amazing mentor. Bob Proctor had a quote that I think really sums of Wes very well, a mentor is somebody that sees your talents and abilities maybe even better than you and helps bring them out of you. Working with Wes so far, that describes him to a "T" without a doubt. We're working right now on taking a lot of the potential that I have and making that actual through particular tasks each time that we work together and talk. For example, building out a website, creating content, without his kind of knowledge and expertise in these areas I probably would still be spinning my wheels right now. It is still a process, particularly for me, because I do tend to overthink, over-analyze, and make it more complicated than it is. But again Wes, bless his heart, he is so patient with me and at the same time very persistent. He'll work with me with where I'm at and at the same time he'll make sure we keep our eyes on the prize and get back on track. He's definitely one of the more balanced individuals that think I've ever met and that is something that I truly admire, in amazement about, you don't find too many people like that in the world. Either they can be a little bit high on the hyper masculine side and just so rigid or somewhere on the feminine side extreme where it's just kind of floating around aimlessly without any direction or purpose. I find myself on the feminine side of things at times. Again, working with Wes has been truly, truly a blessing because he's taking me where I'm at and he's assisting me in the process of finding that balance. This guy truly does walk his talk and that is something that I'm looking to incorporate into my own life. Once again I am very grateful that Wes is taking time out of his life, his days and his journey to assist me in that process and I know that once I reach that level, coaching, assisting other people, similar to how he is, the sky's the limit. I am super excited to see what the future holds working with Wes, I really feel as though we can do some great things together. That's what I have to say about Wes, amazing dude, I hope you all decide to work with him and I know it was one of the best decisions I've ever made in my life."

Greg Jacobsen


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Encinitas Life Coach Wes Pinkston: Steven Kilgore testimonial

Working with Wes Pinkston has been a wonderful experience. From the moment I met with him to discuss where I was in my life and where I wanted to be, I knew something about him was exceptionally different. From our first session together over Skype my awareness began to expand and certain aspects of myself and others became more clear. Wes recognized resources within me that I was unaware of myself, and for that I'm truly grateful. It has been an incredible journey working with him and I'm very excited to see the actualized results.

Steven Kilgore

Century 21 Award Branch Manager, REALTOR

San Diego, California


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Love,

Wes Pinkston

Encinitas Life Coach


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Encinitas Life Coach Wes Pinkston: TJ Tuttle testimonial

Wes Pinkston far exceeded my expectations for a business coach. With his extensive knowledge of social media, digital marketing, sales psychology and communication, He was able to pin point exactly where I was in my life both professionally and personally and helped me use the tools and resources already at my disposal to reach even higher levels of success.

TJ Tuttle

Licensed Real Estate Broker

Turn Key Real Estate, Inc.

Tacoma, Washington


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Love,

Wes Pinkston

Encinitas Life Coach


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Encinitas Life Coach Wes Pinkston: Sebastian Wolski testimonial

"Wes is one of the most visionary and creative individuals I've ever come across. Our working relationship, but more importantly our friendship, has been built within an authentic environment where there exists crystal clear communication. His experience and knowledge in all realms of business is truly manifested with an artistic touch. Everything he draws from is completely custom and from immediate experience." 

Sebastian Wolski 

Managing Partner of "The Serhant Team Los Angeles."

Beverly Hills, California.


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Love,

Wes Pinkston

Encinitas Life Coach


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Encinitas Life Coach Wes Pinkston: Joe Iuculano testimonial

I have been friends with Wes for a couple years on Social Media. I knew we had similarities but didn't know how much he could improve my business and personal mindsets. When I decided to sign up for coaching with Wes, he was able jump into my shoes and connect unlike I have experienced with any other coach I have employed. He truly cares to help and will pull the best out of you to achieve your desired results. I look forward to a long relationship with him.

Joe Iuculano

CEO of The Iuculano Group

Top 5% of Realtors

Awarded Top Agent on 3 of the Top 25 Real Estate Teams by the Wall Street Journal

Graduate of the Scottsdale Leadership Academy


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Love,

Wes Pinkston

Encinitas Life Coach


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